One time, I was busy doing my stuffs online when a friend popped up a question about breast enlargement. I responded, “Girl, you asked the wrong person,” then she went to research about it on Google. I thought it was random thing she did it out of boredom while waiting for me to finish my stuff so I just couldn’t be bothered. She was reading out loud articles after articles the different ways that help to enhance your breasts. When she started contemplating buying pills that were on promotion, it stirred up my curiosity big time. I was wondering why she wanted to invest on these things when, personally, I felt that she has a perfect cup size for her kind of body and the money could be used for better purposes. If I really didn’t care, I wouldn’t stop her and just continue what I was doing but I knew by doing so, she’s only going to increase the risk of developing breast cancer and other side effects god knows what.
My jaw literally dropped when she told me about the man she’s in relationship with. I mean, I totally respect couples who cherish their sexual relationship and tell each other their desires etc. I have nothing against ya’ll but honestly, I always feel like a little part of my heart dies whenever I hear hurtful comments given to such a beautiful young woman like her. I seriously can’t stand how men can be so disrespectful though. Pardon me if I use obscene language/profanities but you see,
1) God didn’t give women a choice to choose the cup size that they want. We grow them naturally with what God is willing to give.
2) Women are naturally insecure about her body and yes, we would appreciate your honest opinion about us. But if you’re going to make our physical features as a joke, might as well you shut up.
3) Unless you choose to date a slut, your girlfriend is not a porn star. Stop expecting her to do everything you’ve watched on the internet.
4) If a man thinks it is okay to talk about how small your girlfriend’s boobs are, just imagine her saying that your dick is too small for her? How would that make you feel?
4) Breast enlargement pills, creams, etc. don’t 100% work on every single woman. There are women who are willing to the extent of paying thousands of dollars for a boob job, don't be surprised if your girlfriend is next. Even with surgery, men always label these women as “fake”. Do you really think they did it solely for themselves or to impress you guys too? Natural or fake, you still don’t know how to appreciate?
5) If you genuinely love a woman for who she really is, you will respect her. When you really connect with her inner self, any physical imperfections disappear, become irrelevant.
I mean, really, think about it. Women desperately want to modify or alter the way they look because of the feedback they receive from the wrong men. You don’t always have to change yourself ladies, change the people you are associating yourself with.
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Nadiah Latiff
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